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  Community Care service Centre in prevention of suicide. 10th September had been recognised by WHO for World Suicide Prevention day. Causes for suicide is really a complex matter but its prevention strategy might reflect the need of creating or strengthening of existing Community care service as bottom up process for community engagement. According to the WHO data- there are 8,00,000 deaths per year due to suicide & there exists 20 attempts for every suicide death. Suicidal tendencies increases as increase in ageing process. But tendency is increasing among the age group of (15-29). In 915-29) years , there comes adolescen t . We know that adolescence age is vulnerable by its nature when they suffer from identity crisis & are under influence of peer pressure. As I told earlier, causes for suicide are of complex phenomenon & may or may not be related to the causative factors like-Suffering from illness for longtime, bulling at work place, conflict, substance abuse

  We all know that surname is the last name that reflects the identity of our family. Whether you are taking admission in school, Job, filling up of format in passport or in marriage, We need to use our surname because surname really matters in our life.. I would n't like to mention here in searching long source of history of surname rather its impact in our societal equilibrium. In the society, we might be accustomed to go through rules for governing our behaviour & meet our social needs. Right from childhood to adult stage, everywhere kinds of institutions are there in fulfilling our needs for eg- family, marriage,education,religion, govt etc. These social institutions aimed at balancing equilibrium at social structure. But will you consider surname as the causative factor in the creation of polarisation that is actually destroying the balance? well in this case you might argue about the importance of surname that indicates the source of our origin, from where have

  Listening to self & living for yourself? Have you lost your sense? Does n't it reflect the self- centred nature of human being which is against the nature of human being as a social animal? You might be wondering with these kind of questions- Right? Before that, let me tell you an incident that happened in my life. During training session, we all participants had been given a topic- "Our pleasant moment & our likes". Believe me, 98% participants including me tried to link it with our nature of job & articulated in that way. Only 2% could give the correct answer. Later trainer explained the necessity to take a break from work & to emphasise on our feelings/value/needs/likes and dislikes. This will in-turn make us more productive in rendering our services ta the professional level & to live a healthy life. If you are still here, together we can find out good impact of Listening to self & Living for self(LS). Definitely it would

  Today is 15th August. Just close your eyes & go back in the year 1947. What did you feel? Having a feeling of independence.  Getting  freedom from foreign rulers,widen  a scope for us to grow as we wish. Over the years India , no doubt had grown up to more developing phase & still growing up in terms of literacy, production & distribution & in many other aspects. We still remember sacrifice  of our leaders for their contribution for the well- being of the country. Some people in our society continuously inspire us. During pandemic when economic impact is disruptive, when we are facing economic slow down everywhere with different extent, then I think story of an  Woman  Entrepreneur will definitely inspire us . Why I have chosen her story? Oh! you might have forgotten the day----- It's 15th August. WE should feel independence at every way-- social & Economic---. & free of any polarisation factor like Gender bias. To day, I am going to tell you the success

  As   a blogger,  one can’t always highlights the happy & easy going matters. Sometimes realism should also be reflected through the writings of a bloggers as— it keeps us updated , help us reform and get ourselves ready for  reformation of society   . You might be knowing what for I am suddenly mentioning this. Well, let me explain. I am going to jot down some facts during covid19. It might not be related globally with the same frequency but its presence can’t be avoided. What is it? o.k before it let me highlight some incidents happened locally & let me tell you that extent of these incidents are increasing recently. A sick aged person was lying & his wife was trying to get him in ambulance but, could not. None including the ambulance driver extended their helping hands. That person died ultimately without reaching to hospital. There was an announcement in a district to avoid police force & their families(as some of them found +ve) in order to avoid any spread. Those

               N ATURE                  vs                                    NURTURE Sir , Are we going today in the field for playing?  Thomas asked me. Yes, of course. I replied & told those boys to get ready.  Thomas(name changed),an adolescent  with others being placed by the court to this  observation home  for their reformation. This boy is in conflict with law for his activity( a heinous crime),he performed before coming to this home . There are many boys who are staying for the past few months & these juvenile delinquents are called CCL(Child with conflict with law).  Their previous action (rape, child marriage,murder, stealing etc)put them into the conflict with law. In their reformation & restoration process, a home like environment is  provided to them. As a superintendent of that home, I clearly understood that  establishing rapport with those boys would make it  easier for them to enter into the reformation process.  I used to take them in the field(of course

" Ankita " just had gone through the break up of relationship with her friend & she had lost all her hope in maintaining sustainable relationship with others.....      Well, I think its sound enough to give us a hint of the negative factor---- "PESSIMISM" . In to-days world we all are conscious of this catchy terminology & we also know that people with pessimism perceive anything within the negative perspectives.    But there are also another type of people around us with different kind of attitude. Look at "Rohit"---------- He is studying in abroad,staying  far away from his family,but still manages his living happily & with full of positive energy. Is it through any magic or you want to highlight his selfish attitude & lack of  gratitude towards his family? None of these are going to work here as "Rohit" knows the art of "DAY DREAMING". Within his schedule of study, taking care of other social grooming factors, he so