In search of happiness & pleasant Moment......
We all are in search of having happiness & pleasant moment. To come out from anxiety/unpleasant situation,we use many ways. In our daily life we might have seen in our neighborhood that (for e.g) Mr Das is an alcoholic & he often disturbs his family but simply he denies the fact or if we consider (for e.g)Mr. Sen-who had a bad day at work, went back to his family & started quarreling with his wife or beating his children . These are the examples of using our defensive mechanism which we use in our daily life. Ist case is the example of "Denial "(Denying of fact) & the 2nd one is " Displacement "(directing frustration/negative feelings towards object/person who would n't be threatening or would be less challenging). We know that--- When we confront a situation that might lead to create/face an anxiety/unpleasant condition, then our ego find a way to relieve us from those situation. These ways /means of dealing & minimizing our anxiety