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5 reasons why you should follow Thinking for self & Listen to self(TSLS).

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  Listening to self & living for yourself? Have you lost your sense? Does n't it reflect the self- centred nature of human being which is against the nature of human being as a social animal? You might be wondering with these kind of questions- Right? Before that, let me tell you an incident that happened in my life. During training session, we all participants had been given a topic- "Our pleasant moment & our likes". Believe me, 98% participants including me tried to link it with our nature of job & articulated in that way. Only 2% could give the correct answer. Later trainer explained the necessity to take a break from work & to emphasise on our feelings/value/needs/likes and dislikes. This will in-turn make us more productive in rendering our services ta the professional level & to live a healthy life. If you are still here, together we can find out good impact of Listening to self & Living for self(LS). Definitely it would

How a woman had shown us the way to be self-independent.......

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  Today is 15th August. Just close your eyes & go back in the year 1947. What did you feel? Having a feeling of independence.  Getting  freedom from foreign rulers,widen  a scope for us to grow as we wish. Over the years India , no doubt had grown up to more developing phase & still growing up in terms of literacy, production & distribution & in many other aspects. We still remember sacrifice  of our leaders for their contribution for the well- being of the country. Some people in our society continuously inspire us. During pandemic when economic impact is disruptive, when we are facing economic slow down everywhere with different extent, then I think story of an  Woman  Entrepreneur will definitely inspire us . Why I have chosen her story? Oh! you might have forgotten the day----- It's 15th August. WE should feel independence at every way-- social & Economic---. & free of any polarisation factor like Gender bias. To day, I am going to tell you the success

When distancing matters our lives.

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  As   a blogger,  one can’t always highlights the happy & easy going matters. Sometimes realism should also be reflected through the writings of a bloggers as— it keeps us updated , help us reform and get ourselves ready for  reformation of society   . You might be knowing what for I am suddenly mentioning this. Well, let me explain. I am going to jot down some facts during covid19. It might not be related globally with the same frequency but its presence can’t be avoided. What is it? o.k before it let me highlight some incidents happened locally & let me tell you that extent of these incidents are increasing recently. A sick aged person was lying & his wife was trying to get him in ambulance but, could not. None including the ambulance driver extended their helping hands. That person died ultimately without reaching to hospital. There was an announcement in a district to avoid police force & their families(as some of them found +ve) in order to avoid any spread. Those

Nature vs Nurture — its impact in the reformation of CCL(Child in conflict with laws)….

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               N ATURE                  vs                                    NURTURE Sir , Are we going today in the field for playing?  Thomas asked me. Yes, of course. I replied & told those boys to get ready.  Thomas(name changed),an adolescent  with others being placed by the court to this  observation home  for their reformation. This boy is in conflict with law for his activity( a heinous crime),he performed before coming to this home . There are many boys who are staying for the past few months & these juvenile delinquents are called CCL(Child with conflict with law).  Their previous action (rape, child marriage,murder, stealing etc)put them into the conflict with law. In their reformation & restoration process, a home like environment is  provided to them. As a superintendent of that home, I clearly understood that  establishing rapport with those boys would make it  easier for them to enter into the reformation process.  I used to take them in the field(of course

"PESSIMISM VS DAY DREAMING"

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" Ankita " just had gone through the break up of relationship with her friend & she had lost all her hope in maintaining sustainable relationship with others.....      Well, I think its sound enough to give us a hint of the negative factor---- "PESSIMISM" . In to-days world we all are conscious of this catchy terminology & we also know that people with pessimism perceive anything within the negative perspectives.    But there are also another type of people around us with different kind of attitude. Look at "Rohit"---------- He is studying in abroad,staying  far away from his family,but still manages his living happily & with full of positive energy. Is it through any magic or you want to highlight his selfish attitude & lack of  gratitude towards his family? None of these are going to work here as "Rohit" knows the art of "DAY DREAMING". Within his schedule of study, taking care of other social grooming factors, he so

ROLE Of Work in our life….

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Close  your eyes for a moment . What did you see?– Certainly a busy moment where everyone is busy with his work. Some one is getting ready for his  office and some one just had opened his shop. Work is related with us reflecting our individualisation, a belonging into the societal dimensions & interactions & way of earning our livelihood. Yesterday, while going through the “ Quora” my attention seemed to be stuck to one question related to the topic where one person requested for its answer. Of course , I will try to discuss this below with the aim of learning new things through your participation and comments  . ”  Work ” cane be perceived from different perspectives & it is deep rooted in our culture and process of mechanism for the social interaction from long days ago. From the Religious Perspective: –   In Hindu religion — Among the 4 goals(Dharma, Artha, kama & Moksha)– 2nd one is “Artha” which describes the importance of making a move towards livelihood & eco

SOA(Saying No, Optimism & Finding Alternatives) Strategy for better living---- Possibility & Justification

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                                 https://goodcause6.files.wordpress.com/2020/07/wp-1594123833438.mp4 Did My parents come ? A 19 years old Girl asked the Ward boy. Ward boy told her that they came but did n't disturb her as she was sleeping. That girl admitted into the rehabilitation center before my joining there as a Psychiatric Case manager. I got interested & went through the case history & collected information even from the Ward boy. That girl was forced to opt "software- course(BCA)" for her bright carrier, which she was n't interested. Few months struggle to adjust with that career & to make her parents happy, ended with the admission in this center as a mentally imbalanced patient. Why did n't that girl reject that option as her career? The question obviously reflects an action to be taken--- "Power of saying NO" "Power of saying NO"? I uttered , which reminded my inability/deficiency of having that power. It reminded me th